About Me
I'm an experienced Domme with real-life experience who offers unique training as I bring a rare combination of intellectual depth and psychological insight to Dominance and submission (D/s). My background bridges communication, psychology, and human behavior allowed me to create a unique, psychologically driven mentorship you won't find anywhere else.
My Background & Training
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Professional leadership experience at government and national organizations
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Instructional design (adult learning + behavior-based training)
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Master’s degree
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Two bachelor’s degrees
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Fluent in three languages and currently learning a fourth
At the beginning of 2025, I stepped away from the world of institutional leadership to focus entirely on work that is personally meaningful to me.
A Glimpse into the Woman
Behind the Structure
Born in Eastern Europe, spent most of my life in the United States, and now am based in Mexico. I have many passions beyond kink. I lose myself in art. I can spend hours at museums and art galleries. I have worked with metal to create jewelry, explored countless crafts, and I’m taking drawing classes now. The gym is my second home. I enjoy staying active. Travel, nature, especially beach recharge me. I love the ingenuity of car design, the strategy of poker, and the challenge of a good board game. I listen to podcasts on psychology, neuroscience, sexology, and comedy.
Someone once said to me, almost in awe, “You are honest as fuck.” They were right. I’m direct, honest, and allergic to Bs. If something is wrong, you’ll know immediately and clearly.
In my relationships, I value intellect, emotional depth, and authentic connection just as much as I value honesty, trust, and accountability. I bring that same depth into every D/s interaction. It’s measured, intentional, and rooted in insight.
How I Got Here
My D/s journey began years ago, and it transformed me on a level nothing else has. I began exploring parts of myself I hadn’t yet met. I discovered power exchange, D/s, BDSM, kink, and everything delicious that come with it. I realized how little I truly knew about myself.
I had followed the script for years. The predictable. The familiar. The usual. And then an entirely new world opened in front of me. It opened parts of myself I hadn't reached before. Clarity. Confidence. Self-Awareness. Internal alignment. And sensual pleasure that reshaped the way I understood myself. That internal shift created experiences I never imagined possible. It challenged and reshaped how I think about pleasure, intimacy, communication, and the foundations of deep personal connection.
Interesting enough, my first real encounter with kink came from the submissive side. It was a brief moment, but the intensity stayed in my skin. It started a fascination with both psychological and erotic aspects of the experience, that raw space where the mind and body meet. Having experienced both sides, I understand the psychological nuances of D/s. This dual perspective allows me to help you navigate your own inner landscape and shape a truly transformative experience.
When I stepped into Dominance, it felt instinctive, natural, like uncovering something that was buried deep under a river stone and the current had finally shifted, setting it free.
What began as exploration became a clear framework for transformation — and this mentorship is the result of that journey.